{"id":5016,"date":"2016-03-07T17:51:29","date_gmt":"2016-03-07T15:51:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.lugera.ro\/blog\/?p=5016"},"modified":"2025-08-07T15:27:27","modified_gmt":"2025-08-07T12:27:27","slug":"despre-subtilitatilele-lui-nu-imi-pasa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lugera.ro\/blog\/despre-subtilitatilele-lui-nu-imi-pasa\/","title":{"rendered":"Despre subtilitatilele lui nu imi pasa\u2026"},"content":{"rendered":"

In mediul profesional vorbim des despre implicare, responsabilitate, empatie \u2013 si pe buna dreptate. Insa, prea rar abordam reversul medaliei: ce se intampla cand ne pasa prea mult<\/em>? Cand punem la suflet tot, de la tonul unui email pana la o sedinta mai tensionata? Sau cand ramanem blocati in situatii doar pentru ca nu avem curajul sa spunem \u201cstop\u201d?<\/p>\n

Exista un echilibru sanatos intre a-ti pasa si a lasa lucrurile sa treaca. Si uneori, cheia unei cariere implinite nu este in efortul constant de a controla totul, ci in abilitatea de a da drumul \u2013 constient, cu incredere si luciditate.<\/p>\n

De-a lungul timpului, am investit multa energie in a imi pasa in legatura cu multe lucruri\u2026 oameni\u2026 si iar lucruri. Partea buna e ca am invatat cate ceva din fiecare astfel de interactiune. Partea proasta e ca toata energia aceasta n-a reusit sa aprinda nici macar un bec\u2026 de multe ori.<\/p>\n

Se spune ca, de fapt, sa nu iti pese de\u2026 este formula secreta a INCREDERII SI A SUCCESULUI. Acum\u2026 fiecare dintre noi are tot soiul de povesti menite sa exemplifice aceasta \u201cnu-mi pasare\u201d:
\u201eIl stii pe Gigi? I-a zis sefului ca isi da demisia si seful i-a dat o marire de salariu ca sa ramana.\u201d
\u201eDar pe Ana?! Si-a luat un an sabatic pentru ca nu mai avea, pur si simplu, chef\u2026 Sa vezi ce bine ii merge acum…\u201d<\/p>\n

Cu siguranta ca fiecare dintre noi cunoaste pe cineva caruia efectiv nu ii pasa\u2026 care nu da doi bani pe ce cred altii. Probabil ca, in experienta ta, au existat astfel de momente\u2026 Eu una imi amintesc perfect cand mi-am dat demisia din invatamant pentru ca intrasem la a doua facultate si vroiam sa fiu un student constiincios. Nu m-a tinut prea mult, dar a fost unul dintre momentele in care am simtit ca sunt extrem de curajoasa si ca nu imi pasa catusi de putin cat si daca pierd.<\/p>\n

Sa nu-ti pese de\u2026 este, insa, o arta care ajunge mai profund decat am crede. Pentru a ajunge la cutia cu bunatati, trebuie sa sapi, cu perseverenta, suficient de adanc.<\/p>\n

Sunt unii, insa, care dau o importanta prea mare\u2026 mult prea mare\u2026 lucrurilor: iarba nu este suficient de verde, tonul a fost ironic, ploua, tipul de la receptie a fost nepoliticos, el m-a privit indiferent, a uitat de ziua mea\u2026 As putea sa o tin astfel la nesfarsit. Ne pasa de multe lucruri\u2026 care mai de care mai mici, mai marunte si mai lipsite de importanta.<\/p>\n

Sa nu iti pese\u2026 tine, insa, de forta si determinare si de foarte mult exercitiu.<\/p>\n

Sa nu iti pese inseamna sa nu ai nicio problema sa faci lucrurile ALTFEL! Nu inseamna, in niciun caz, sa fii indiferent.<\/p>\n

Sa nu iti pese de adversitate sau rautate inseamna sa iti pese de ceva mai presus de acestea!<\/p>\n

Mai mult: sa nu iti pese este despre „mi-am invatat lectia bine si mi-am facut si temele”.<\/p>\n

Intr-o lume in care burnout-ul vine adesea dintr-un \u201cprea mult\u201d, poate ca un pic de detasare constienta e exact ingredientul de care ai nevoie.
Spune-ne: care a fost momentul in care ai invatat sa lasi lucrurile sa curga? Ai avut curajul sa nu-ti pese si ti-a iesit? Scrie-ne in comentarii!<\/p>\n

Monica Dona<\/p>\n

PR Manager<\/p>\n

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Sursa foto: shuttterstock.com<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

In mediul profesional vorbim des despre implicare, responsabilitate, empatie \u2013 si pe buna dreptate. Insa, prea rar abordam reversul medaliei: ce se intampla cand ne pasa prea mult? Cand punem la suflet tot, de la tonul unui email pana la o sedinta mai tensionata? 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